Irrational behaviour – falling in love

Having been somewhat familiar with love of varying types over the years, I thought I might as well try to understand it. I’ve come up with little, lol. It is a topic with which everyone is familiar; but we all have various views on its meaning, purpose and manifestation/expression. I’ve shared various views on theContinue reading “Irrational behaviour – falling in love”

Why “Joe Grind” can’t marry her

For those of you who know me, Garth’s no angel #NewsFlash . On occasion I’ve been called upon to play various roles with the ladies… boyfriend, lover, man, best-friend, confidante, counselor and, of course, “joe grind”. If you’re unfamiliar with the phrase “joe grind”, let me quickly share. Mr. Joseph P. Grind is the gentleman responsibleContinue reading “Why “Joe Grind” can’t marry her”

Why I said no to sex, the first night

I moved from Jamaica in early January to take up a job in Dominica. No, it’s not the Dominican Republic, Haiti’s neighbour and home of Latina booties (beauties). I came to the Eastern Caribbean nation of Dominca – the land of 365 rivers and gorgeous, lush vegetation. Whoever said Jamaica is the “land of woodContinue reading “Why I said no to sex, the first night”

the princess and the frog

At the risk of sounding somewhat superficial, I can’t help but wonder what’s at work whenever I see a “mismatched” couple. She’s cute like a button and he’s as ugly as sin or vice-versa. You readers probably ask the same question I do, “how did he get that girl?”. What is ugly/attractive? Attractive is an adjectiveContinue reading “the princess and the frog”

Material World – material girl?

Jamaican actress Andrea Wright aka DELCITA in the 2010 play “Ova mi dead body” said, “Love without money is like lemonade without sugar, it nah go sweet”. We are living in a material world, where diamonds are still a girl’s best friend. The media seem to reinforce the “value” that it takes cash to careContinue reading “Material World – material girl?”

break up to make up (sex)

‘Tis the season to be jolly and some women know ’tis the season for men to break off relationships that may prove too costly to maintain. Although breaking up is hard to do, make-up sex sure can make it all worthwhile.Experts all over the world agree that having uninhibited sex after a quarrel is aContinue reading “break up to make up (sex)”

Friends with the ex? Not simple at all

I ran into an ex-girlfriend yesterday. This was our first time seeing each other in about 2 years. The break-up was “clean” (mutual) and we maintained contact via Facebook; you know, happy birthday and merry Christmas. We’re both now parents and we compare ‘parental notes’, but our online exchanges never go deeper than that. OurContinue reading “Friends with the ex? Not simple at all”